The word Sacred
means “devoted or dedicated to a deity or to some religious purpose;
consecrated.” I have heard it said, “to be set apart” as in something very
different than common things. The word scares some people, as they feel it
implies restrictions, judgment, and behavior modification. I guess it is a
matter of perspective. The word Salesperson
– well, we all know what that means: a person who sells something. It doesn't take much research to discover the many negative connotations associated with
this word. In a survey about careers, the only job considered less trustworthy
than a salesperson is an attorney… (There are so many things I could say about
that… but I’m just going to leave it there.)
The phrase, then, “sacred salesperson” can have two meanings:
a person who sells “sacred” whether that would be things that are sacred or the
concept of sacredness; or a person who is devoted or dedicated to a deity or to
some religious purpose that also sells something or things. I guess a preacher
could meet the first definition in some sense – one who stands in front of
others and “sells” them on being sacred… on buying into the concept that being
“set apart for a godly purpose” is something worth investing in. I have been
that person for a short period in my life. I was a paid pastor on staff at a
local church and my job was to assist in running the operations of the
congregation, as well as minister to our members in a variety of ways. It is a
rather long story how I ended up in that role, but suffice it to say it was a “God
thing” as we say in the preaching biz. I know there are some out there who were
just offended by my reference to the church as a business… I understand… We can
talk about that some other time.
As to the meaning of “The Sacred Salesperson” that the rest
of this post, and really, this entire blog series will be devoted to would be
the person who is one seeking the “sacred” who also is employed or
self-employed in ventures that primarily focus on closing sales. I am referring
to the profession of selling – a person who intentionally has conversations
with others to assist them in making a decision about buying or selling
something. This is a very broad categorical word ranging from selling jewelry
from a store, selling cars to those who walk onto a car lot, to helping buyers
and sellers of real estate in the process of getting a home sold, or selecting
and buying a home or investment property. I believe that I have something to
say about all of this, as I have had many experiences in both areas described:
I have been pursuing sacred-ness since 1991 and have experienced some success
and plenty of failures. As for sales, I have made millions of dollars in my
lifetime, some of it a penny at a time, and much of it 3% of sales price at a
time.
An entrepreneur from birth, I was mowing lawns and selling my
physical labor literally from as far back as I can remember. I started throwing papers when I was eleven
and delivered newspapers every single day until I was fifteen and my family
moved from San Antonio, Texas to Dallas. Upon arriving in this new city, I lied
about my age and started working at McDonald's. After another non-selling job at
a wholesale warehouse, after moving back to San Antonio, I got a job in
construction. Later, in my senior year, someone asked me if I knew anyone who
could build a patio cover, and I said “me!” That was 1980; I have been selling
ever since. I have sold construction jobs, remodels and roofs, sold food
products to restaurants and institutions, and then for over seventeen years,
sold homes – or more appropriately, helped home buyers and sellers make great decisions.
I could give greater details, but the
point is that I have a fair amount of perspective when it comes to making a
living by closing deals, and helping people part with their money for a service
or product of value.
The reason I think the idea of The Sacred Salesperson is
worth discussion is that the two pursuits at times can be at odds with each
other… or at least, the temptation to relax the pursuit of holiness to make the
sale is real. The buyer often times brings it up: “You just want to make your commission...
you will say anything to get me to sign!” Even if you are as pure as driven
snow, if you are in sales, you will likely be accused of this sooner or later. (As
a buyer, you have probably thought this about the salesperson you were working
with, at one time or another.) And of course, if you are totally honest, as a
human, fallen and struggling to find our way through life, short cuts and the easy
way is at times tempting. Sometimes we simply do need the money and we just
need the deal to close. This is what I want to talk about here.
In the upcoming posts, we will explore these two pursuits:
the one for holiness, the sacred, the life of following God, doing the right
thing, and being a person of integrity. And the other pursuit for making money,
closing deals, and working with people as they make choices about how they
spend and invest their hard earned cash. If you are a person who sells things
for a living, a professional salesperson, or you are considering it, this blog
is for you. If you long for nearness of God, this blog is for you. I only ask
that you be willing to look hard into the mirror and be boldly honest with yourself.
I am convinced this journey is worth taking, and this conversation needs to
happen. I am convinced we can be godly, sacred persons, while being a top-producing
salesperson, earning a fantastic living. I believe without any doubt that we
can be The Sacred Salesperson.
I agree the pursuits of sales or selling somethings can be at odds with one's spiritual base of convictions. The pressure to achieve and the passion for humility and spiritual obedience can create internal friction points.
ReplyDeleteI hope you might develop a list if "None Non-negotiable's" to guaranty that your Spiritual Commpass is always pointing true North.
You might even ask for input after you have developed yours first.